Dear Friends,
Many of you have asked for help in responding to adult personals ads. Here is some advice based upon what I've seen work, and not work.
The concept of answering an adult personals ad, is fairly straightforward. The goal is to stimulate some one to write you a return message. You will hurt your chances of meeting, if you try to accomplish more than this in your first message, it's doubtful you'll generate a response. Although you're ultimate goal is intimacy, don't be too blunt about this in the first message. All too many messages do little more than describe what one person wants to do to another.
Here's what you should do instead. Try to understand the profile of the person you're writing to. Then, write your ad so that it addresses, the interests as they've described them. A "cookie cutter" response will not be specific enough to match the interests of most people.
Try to show what makes you unique or different.
Be honest! At the same time, don't hesitate to put your best foot forward.
Don't get all stressed out expecting an immediate response. Many people only check their e-mail a couple of times per week; some even less.
You should also consider, placing your own ad. There is no charge to place an ad, and they work for you while you're not even at your keyboard.
If you have you're own ad, be sure and include your MPC (MatchesPlus.com) Number™, in your response. This way you can more safely show your pic, and additional info about yourself to the people you're writing to.
I sincerely hope this information has been helpful. As questions come up, don't hesitate to write!
I hope your dreams come true!
Hugs & Kisses,
Dawn
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