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Swingers come from all economic levels, job classifications, races,
and nationalities. Swingers tend to be adventuresome, emotionally mature, and
have excellent relationships with their mates and friends. Swinging enables a
couple to explore sexual and social feeling and needs together allowing the
relationships unhindered by the standard ties to love, duty, sex roles, and
morals of others.
WHAT IS LIFESTYLE?
So you are thinking about it, but you just are not sure.
Ask yourselves these questions.....
1)Is your relationship stable?
To survive in swinging you must have total trust in each other and know for sure
that the addition of other sex partners will not rock your boat to much.
2)Can you conquer jealousy?
Jealousy is normal and most people will feel this during the first (if not all)
swinging
experiences. It is more a matter of how much you feel and in what form it takes.
How it affects you and your relationship is the part that can be dangerous.
3)Are you aware of the facts?
You will be putting yourselves at greater risk of STDs if you take up swinging.
Don't fool yourselves that you are not vulnerable. Take precautions.
4)Have you thought about possible social consequences?
You may think to keep swinging a secret, but if you do.. know that a chance
exists your secret will get out. How would this affect you, and do you care?
5)Do you think of swinging as purely physical? or are emotions involved?
Many think of swinging as something that doesn't include emotion.
We will be adding more as time permits Until then, check out our Swing book
revue for more info.
And also take a look at this.
BASIC RULES WE LIVE BY IN THE
SWINGERS LIFESTYLE
THE GOLDEN RULE
"NO MEANS NO"
PERIOD!
END OF CONVERSATION
Anyone may say "NO" at any time, for any reason! If you are in a situation that
makes you uncomfortable, just say "No".
RESPECT
Always treat each other with respect This is a Party! Never be rude or
judgmental, because you wouldn't want it to happen to you.
If a single person talks to you and you are interested in swinging with couples
only, that doesn't mean you can't be nice to them. Just politely let them know.
REJECTION
(It happens to everyone) DO NOT take personal offense. Rejection is a very
personal thing,
and it's almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected. Honesty with each
other is crucial.
Who knows? You could end up with a great friendship if you handle the situation
right.
JEALOUSY
Deal with it head on!
It is a normal reaction. We all feel it sometimes. Remember that this is a
physical &
recreational pleasure, not an emotional one. It may mean modifying your
activities, but your
relationship together is not worth losing over swinging.
YOUR PARTNER IS #1
Let your partner know she/he is number one
Arrive together, take time to caress them, touch base often, it makes one feel
secure.
Honor any and all prior understandings, and always leave together.
GOOD JUDGMENT
When you are involved in a swinging situation, be kind, thoughtful, and
sensitive.
Swingers are people, too!!!